Well sometimes change and rough spots in life turn out to be a good thing, we fall into ruts and need a little kick in the ass once in a while, I fell into one myself the last couple years, but the next thing you know wham you've got time off! and then the shock and even a little fear of being out of control kicks in, but you deal with it, you've got time to micro manage and strangle your expenses down to the bone, your reminded that there's a big difference between what you want and what you need, with the extra time you rediscover why you fell for your mate, and reaffirm that friendship with laughter and mutual reliance and sacrifice.and maybe part ways with some of your favorite toys, theres really no good reason to have a corvette in the driveway when the kitchen cupboard looks like you own stock in Top Ramen.